Saturday, January 16, 2010

where everybody knows your name...

As I was walking the 45 minute walk home today from my galavanting around, I experienced that awful feeling you get in your stomach when something totally startles and scares you. I was walking past a very populated bus stop, my bag on my back, when i felt someone grab my sides. My eyes burst open, my heart and stomach dropped, i grabbed the hands on my sides, scared to turn around to see who it was or what they might be trying to do. But as I turned expecting to find someone trying to rob me, I heard "Natalia!" Looking behind me, I saw Gabi, the daughter in-law of Dona Juana, both of whom I lived with for a month at the beginning of my time here in Cuernavaca. A smile came to my face and a rush of relief swept across soul. I walked with Gabi for a block or two before we arrived at her work where I stayed for awhile to chat and catch up.

Now this story in and of itself is not that exciting. But this morning on my way out, i ran into Angel on the street, a teenager that lives in La Via and helps out at the Buena Tierra just because he wants to. Later I bumped into Zaira, Angel's sister, who works at the Kinder with me for scholarship to attend beauty school. And Wednesday as I was walking the hour walk home from language class, I ran into Sabrina (teacher/secretary at BT) and her daughter waiting in line at the zocalo to attempt a pass at the (weird) ice skating rink.

These are just a few examples of the incredible fact that here in Cuernavaca, in a city of one million people, where I have only lived for 4 months and feel that I know next to no one, pretty much every time I leave the house I run into someone I know on the street. I am constantly amazed by these encounters. Granted, Cuernavaca is no HUGE place like Mexico City, but still, one million is pretty big, and it is incredible to me that I see so many people that I know when I'm just wandering about the city. I find it a blessing and a bright spot in my day. In a city, and country, where i often find myself feeling very lonely, these rendezvouses remind me that i am not alone, and that i have built many more relationships than i might even realize. although its not everybody, its nice to feel like i'm in a place where at least lots of people know my name :)

p.s. in 6 days there will be one more person in this place that knows my name ... elena comes on friday !!! i'm so incredibly stoked ...

3 comments:

  1. What a great feeling to have so many "friends", especially after that scare. Have a great time with Elena. I daily look at you four friends every time I open my refrigerator door. Love, Grandma

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  2. Hi Natalie, Happy Belated Birthday!! You are sooooo old! yeah right! What an exciting 5 months! I love looking at the pictures and reading your stories. You will have so many great memories. Keep up the blog, keep teaching those kindergarten kids, and eat an empanada for me. I too will write more often. love ya, Carol

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  3. Gabi, Angel, Zaira, Sabrina, Sabrina's daughter...What a day!

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